One of my good girlfriends asked me what I was doing for Valentine’s Day.
I told her about the care packages I was preparing for my children and getting started on my taxes.
She spoke slowly as if she thought it would help me understand. It did.
I realized that I didn’t have any plans for myself for valentine’s Day. So often as women we are caregivers to a houseful of people and not to ourselves. I have slipped into that mindset but like they tell you on the plane, put the oxygen mask over your mouth then attend to children and others in your area.
“Caring for myself is not self-indulgence,
it is self-preservation,
and that is an act of political warfare.”― Audre Lorde
So I sat out to have a plan to do…
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